Monday, August 15, 2011
A moms love is eternal
As a psychic medium, I am constantly receiving my own personal validations from Spirit, especially from my mother, Yvonne. This past Sunday, August 14th, was the 13th year of my mom’s passing to cancer.
So, please keep in mind that 14, 13, and Yvonne will be very significant while you read the rest of my blog. Also, it’s important to know I was 14 when I lost my mom from the Physical form to Spirit form.
My mother, Yvonne
The first amazing validation happened while driving a few days before her anniversary. Like most Californian’s, I was speeding to my workout class on the 5 freeway when I was thinking of my mom and the fact that her anniversary was approaching. I heard a voice in my head at that very moment that said, “Look to your right”, and as I did, a car was literally speeding in front of me in the right hand lane. I happened to catch the license plate, which was personalized with the word, you guessed it: “Yvonne.” Pretty amazing, isn’t it? And since my mom is always sending messages in ways that seem very creative, I believe this was her way of saying, Slow Down!
Yesterday, the 14th was filled with amazing validations. I had the privilege to spend the day with my dear friend, Natalie Tomlinson, who I call my soul Sister. She also serves as a bridge between here and the hereafter. Natalie is a Psychic Medium whose gift has proven to be amazing not only in communicating with those who have passed, but also at predicting future events with breathtaking accuracy. I knew that the two of us would be a double dose of validation due to the fact that we both lost our moms. Natalie’s mom, Marysia, passed most recently, December 6th, of 2009. This information you will also need to remember as you read further.
Marysia and Natalie
We decided to have lunch at a place in town, and like always, we make friends with the waiters wherever we go. In this case, the lucky waitress, who I’ll call Mary, was very receptive to the fact that we were both Psychic Mediums and had explained to us that she had also lost her father. Out of curiosity, (and knowing that I was being nudged by Spirit), I asked Mary how old she was when her father had passed. She responded with 14. Ok, well, that struck my curiosity even more since we were both the same age when we lost our parents. I then told her we were celebrating the 13th year of my mother’s passing. She gasped and said, “This December will by the 13th year of my father’s passing”. At this point, I just bellowed out, “Did your father have cancer as well”? By this point, Mary had chills running down her body when she responded, “Yes he did, but he passed from complications due to alcoholism.” There’s one more fact that I left out. My mother’s cancer was due to the fact that she also had struggled with alcoholism. So there you go, on the 14th of August, which was the 13th year of my mother’s passing, Spirit presented me with parallels from a total stranger and her father that had also passed 13 years ago when she was 14. And let’s not forget that her father passed in December, which was also the month that Natalie’s mom passed.
As we walked out of the restaurant, I received an e-mail from a new person following me on Twitter. The name was “Fields, Yvonne”. Natalie and I both turned to one another and laughed because we knew our moms were at work and also very happy we had spent the day together. We decided to take a walk, go to Barnes and Noble, and buy a movie to watch back at her place. As all my friends know, I am typically the guy who hasn’t seen the movie that each and everyone one of you have. But in this case, as we were browsing I suggested the movie, “The Lovely Bones,” about a young girl who is murdered. During her transition to the other side, she helps heal her family and leads them to the correct suspect in her murder, and others. After much more wonderful conversation with Natalie, whom I lovingly call “Nats,” we decided to pop in the movie and within 10 minutes we had our final confirmation that her mom was also in on the fun. One of the most chilling lines in the movie is when the young girl, who is called “Salmon,” introduces herself by saying, “My name is Salmon, like the fish, and I was 14 years old when I was murdered on December 6th, 1973.” Remember earlier when I stated Natalie’s Mom had passed on December 6th? Yep, that’s right! That was our final confirmation of the day that a mother’s love is eternal and unconditional, and that we are all connected.
How amazing is that!??
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Trusting Spirit
The age ol’ saying “Home Sweet Home” definitely rings true for me right now!
New York, Massachusetts, and San Francisco were all fantastic, this past month. It was a lot of hard work and rewarding at the same time.
This past year, I’ve taken a leap of faith and started doing larger audience readings, where I’ve had much success in bringing through beautiful and amazing messages from crossed over loved ones.
I still consider myself “in training” when it comes to this work. And I feel that, as a medium, I will always be in training for the interpretation. The way I receive messages is constantly evolving, as I am also evolving on a human level.
One thing I enjoy speaking about before a Gallery Reading is how I receive information from those in Spirit. It is always a unique experience and very similar to playing a game of “charades” with those who have passed. The reason for this is that those in the Spirit realm have no physical body. They can’t communicate the way they were accustomed to in physical life. Think for a second, if you had no physical body, voice, etc., how would you communicate? With your thoughts, of course! As this would be your only means of getting messages through to your loved ones.
With this being said, the spirits work to communicate telepathically. The only test for the medium is to be able to trust that what is received is truly from Spirit. This is a process called “validation”, which everyone that has received a reading from me, has witnessed firsthand. I constantly strive for more and more validation when communicating with the hereafter.
In private or individual sessions, the energy is much stronger and direct from crossed over loved ones. Whereas, in a group setting, there are so many people trying to come through and communicate that it can be overwhelming in the sense of energy. Think of thousands of images, thoughts, and names entering into your head, and whichever energy is strongest is the energy that will have the best chance of coming through, in an audience or group type of session.
The biggest lesson I’ve learned with this type of work is to trust what I am getting. And when the person on the receiving end is not able to validate the information in the moment, they will always be able to, after some time has passed and if they have been open with their loved ones, in life, about the information that did come through for them. I’ve learned this lesson several times over the past two years. One in particular led to the discovery of a young girls remains, who had gone missing a year prior.
Another huge lesson I’ve learned is to work at getting the group involved in taking ownership of the information. And although I know it can be very daunting to think of raising your hand and participating in such an event, allowing yourself to be vulnerable in a crowd filled with strangers, the benefit can be life changing if we allow ourselves to go there. And, unfortunately, if an audience member cannot allow themselves to be that vulnerable; they will lose their chance for a profound and healing experience to take place.
Recently, I gave a Gallery Reading in Walnut Creek, CA to a group of about 100 people. I felt that this group, out of all the large groups I’ve read for so far, was the most fearful to participate in the healing experience. Don’t get me wrong, there were still SO many wonderful messages and healing from loved ones on the other side, especially for those who took a leap of faith and owned the information. For others, they lost their chance for an intense experience to occur.
At the beginning of the session, I kept getting tapped by a woman named Mary. Now of course, everyone has a Mary and so I kept asking for more information, and she gave me more: her age (93), the fact that she passed from lung cancer, mother figure to someone there that evening, and I kept hearing April fools in my head, which was my way to interpret there was an April 1st connection to her. After several minutes of repeating the information, still, no one took it. I was insistent and even said, “Ok… Someone here is going to understand this, and before the night is over, you will have your “aha!” moment. But it would have been too late.”
Half way through the session, I saw a hand go up in the very back of the audience, as a soft voice came over the microphone. “I am sorry, I just didn’t think of it earlier, but my grandmother’s name was Mary, she died at age 93 of lung cancer, and her birthday was April 1st.” This particular woman had come to the event hoping to hear from her departed son. Unfortunately, because she didn’t acknowledge this information when I was offering it, she lost the connection to her grandmother, whom I feel was the catalyst to bringing through her son.
This happened a few more times. After the event, I was pulled aside by an older gentleman who said he also understood everything that came through for him regarding his father, but he didn’t want to participate. And again by another woman, who completely froze in her fear of the participation.
Now, please don’t get me wrong- I was very grateful for the people that did participate, because there was so much healing and very precise messages that came through. Yet, for the others that did not participate, I really, really wish they had….to show the group how truly amazing an evening of Mediumship works when everyone involved lets their light shine. This was a big lesson for me to spend more time with the audience, making them feel totally secure and comforted, before bringing forth the messages from their beloveds on the other side.
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